Community Guidelines

Mentors share lived retrospective narratives—not rigid instructions. We replace "You must do this" with "Here is what happened when I was in your shoes, and here is how it played out over 30 years."

Seekers bring authentic vulnerability. Contributors listen with warmth, humor, and equanimity. No lecturing, no patronizing condescension, and zero moral condemnation.

Contributors generously volunteer their time and mental energy. Respect meeting schedules, show up promptly, avoid ghosting, and express sincere gratitude for their presence.

No money exchange, lending, investing, or business solicitations. Keep the relationship bounded, dignified, and centered exclusively around reflective life wisdom.